Last summer I was enjoying a drink with a friend in his apartment overlooking the Thames and Canary Wharf. His adorable little three year old daughter was entertaining us with songs and dancing and other antics. At one point she sat on his knee and asked what he was drinking. After he told he it was beer she asked if she could taste it, which is what you would expect a curious child to ask. He said yes, but before he could raise the glass to the child’s lips his wife exploded in anger and shouted “No! What are you doing? Do you want them to take her!?”
It transpired that “them” were local social workers who had taken an interest in the child, lets call her M, after they had discovered some bruising on her back (she had fallen). They had subjected her mother to what she describes as fierce interrogation. Why is she so small, is she being fed properly? Where did these bruises come from etc.
Now two minutes with this family would convince anyone that M is both adored and adoring. One might even say as an only child she is bit pampered. M is healthy, her parent are wealthy working professionals and she lacks for nothing. Despite this he mother lives in fear that the social workers will get the wrong idea. Someone swearing in front of the chid caused near panic because she might repeat the word in front of the social worker, same with the beer incident, “what would happen if they found out we gave her beer!”.
It all seemed a bit paranoid to me, so I gently suggested as much. “They are taking children all the time”, M’s mother told me, ” in secret courts. Parents are genuinely scared of messing with these people”.
I knew that the family courts were absurdly cruel to fathers and that Father For Justice were making good progress in righting the injustices there. But secret draconian courts confiscating children. I thought she had lost her mind.
I was wrong.
In December 2006, Camilla Cavendish, a journalist from the Times newspaper, learned of a dreadful case that just gone through the family courts, a routine case of gross injustice that had come to typify the family courts.
The nub of the case is this. A woman, let us call her Janie, gave birth to her first and only child a year ago. That baby was taken away from her and subsequently put up for adoption. Not because of her own failure to care for the baby — her own love and care never seem to have been in question. No. She has lost her baby because of a suspicion that her husband John may have injured another child in his previous marriage almost ten years ago.
The suspicion was no more than that. John was never charged with anything, let alone convicted. Social workers were never sufficiently worried to take that first child into care. Since his divorce John has shared custody of that child perfectly amicably with his ex-wife. Yet the same local authority which left the first child with him has forbidden him to see this new baby. And his new wife, despite having nothing to do with the first case, may never see her baby again. [Family courts are the B-side of the law, The Times, December 21st 2006]
Cavendish was so outraged by this case started investigating the Family Court and the UK’s care system. What she discovered was so shocking that The Times newspaper launched a campaign for justice in the Family Courts.
As readers have found out more about the family Courts and the care system outrage has grown and the campaign had gathered strength. The issue is now finally getting serious political attention.
The Times published three must read articles and a follow-up 10 point plan to restore justice.
- Family justice: the secret state that steals our children - Every year thousands of children are taken from their parents, largely on the say-so of ‘experts’. It is a secret and sometimes unjust process and the system must change
- Family courts: the hidden untouchables - In the second of the special articles, they explain how family courts operate in secrecy
- Family justice: your word against theirs - In the third of their special articles, they look at the pernicious types of allegation that are almost impossible for parents to disprove
- Family justice: what we can do to protect our children - A ten-point plan to make our courts system fairer
When one reads the 10 point plan, one has to marvel that one has to be campaign for these rights and provisions in a court that has the power to take away people’s children, for many a fate worse than death.
- Open family courts to the press in all but exceptional circumstances (as recommended by the Constitutional Affairs Select Committee).
- Let any parent or carer accused of abuse call any witnesses they need in their defence. At the moment, they are routinely refused permission to do so.
- Give automatic permission for parents who are refused legal aid to get a lay adviser to help them present their case. This is routinely refused.
- Remove the restrictions that prevent families from talking about their case (as recommended by the Constitutional Affairs Select Committee).
- Review the definition of “emotional abuse” across local authorities, to make sure that it cannot become a catch-all for overzealous officials.
- Provide an automatic right for parents to receive copies of case conference notes and all evidence used against them in court, just as they would in a criminal trial.
- Create an independent body to oversee the actions of social services, with proper sanctions. If that body is to be the General Social Care Council, make it easier for parents to go directly to that body rather than having to face delays from the local authority.
- Let children in care waive their right to privacy if they wish to speak out. For gagging children is surely not consistent with promoting their welfare.
- Restructure CAFCASS, the Family Court Advisory Service, from being an organisation that reports on the parents to the courts to one that actively promotes the parenting needs of children. The primary focus should cease to be assisting the court process. It should be diverting parents away from contested hearings into the making of parenting plans.
- Review the recent legal aid cut-backs that are deterring lawyers from taking on these complex family cases. It is quite wrong that desperate parents are unable to find a lawyer to help them in their time of need.
[From Family justice: what we can do to protect our children | Camilla Cavendish - Times Online]
I hope that Ms Cavendish wins an award for this great and just campaign. If you live in the UK, you really should visit the campaign website and write you your MP.
{ 2 comments… read them below or add one }
Claire 08.04.08 at 10:53 pm
My sister recently had 5 healthy boys taken from her by the family court system, with no evidence, and no case to support this break up of her family.
She is a single parent with a boyfriend who is the biological father to the two youngest children, but a dad to all 5. A report from an anonymous person complained that her boyfriend shouted too much to the social services. They banned him from the house and ever seeing his children again. They then in a raid style invaded my sister’s property searching for him on a regular basis. As the couple are in love and didn’t understand why this had happened, eventually they found him in the house and the children were taken away.
Here are the facts:
- Neither of the parent figures have been accused or convicted of a crime against the children
- The children since being in care have suffered from prolonged illness and lice and the oldest child wanders the streets. He is only 11.
- In the care of the mother and her boyfriend the children were all healthy and happy.
- The police and local school have stated this case is unjustified
- The father of the 2 middle children has been granted free access to them, when 4 years ago he kidnapped the children and threatened to kill them and himself. The social services don’t seem to mind this.
- The council house of the mother has been called unsuitable for the children. It was provided by the council, why is the mother blamed for this?
- The maternal grandmother who worked for the North Yorkshire Police and has been commended for her work with them and never committed any kind of crime has been denied free access to her grandchildren. Due to finding her grandson wandering a busy road and taking him home for some food before returning him to the social services. He’d been on the streets for over 8 hours and needed food.
- The 11 year old was alone on a bus and saw his grandmother walking by on her way home from work. He was been so desperate to see her he jumped off a moving bus to try and see his grandmother. Fortunately the bus driver wasn’t driving fast and he only got a few scratches. The maternal grandmother has been told she cannot see him unsupervised because of this. Why was he unsupervised on a bus in the first place?
- The family court will not allow defence solicitors in it, so only one side of the case is ever heard.
- There has been no arrest, prosecution or more importantly evidence against the mother, she has been judged without even a trial.
- An anonymous person also reported to income support that my sister was working, it was easy to prove she wasn’t as she was in court the days they lied about her. But why hasn’t this anonymous person been taken into account in this case? Someone is clearly slandering my sister with every government body.
- The social services, care workers, solicitors and judges all make a profit from this kind of child theft.
- They target low income families as they cannot defend themselves.
I’m disgusted with the social services and the family court legal system, it appears to ignore every legal requirement for a court case and side only with itself, either to fill a government quota or to make a profit. Innocent children are being ripped from their homes and put in unsafe environments and the only purpose of these cases seem to be to traumatise the mothers by ripping their children away unfairly.
I will never have children in the UK and be subject them to these baby snatchers, and hope every institution that claims to protect children will help to put a stop to this kind of injustice.
I work for a human rights charity and am appalled at the lack of human rights in these cases. The UK family courts are nothing but baby snatchers under a government heading. The social services have ripped apart a poor but happy family, with no evidence, no defence for the parents, no reason other than to fill a government quota. When someone steals your children they take away your whole life with them. The legal jargon and new policies all add up to destroyed families, not the protection of children. I intend to contact the EU for an investigation into this case and campaign against this kind of injustice. I hope I’m not the only one.
limbic 08.05.08 at 2:02 pm
Oh Claire, I am desperately sorry to hear this story.
Thank you very much for sharing this with us.
If I can help in any way, please contact me privately via the contact form. I am reasonably well connected in the UK, especially in legal circles, and there may be something I can do.